Archive for May, 2006

May 31 2006

101 Must-See Movies for Gay Men

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And yes, I’m aware that I don’t qualify as such, but…  Bold / seen, Italics/hate, underline/want to see.

All About Eve
All About My Mother
The Apple
Auntie Mame
Barbarella
Basic Instinct

Beautiful Thing
Beyond the Valley of the Dolls
Big Eden
Boom!
Bound
The Boys in the Band
The Broken Hearts Club
Brother to Brother
Cabaret
Camp
Can’t Stop the Music (I have to admit I’m curious but I can’t justify watching it)
Carrie (original version)
Casablanca
The Celluloid Closet

Chasing Amy
Chuck & Buck (do not want to see)
Cruising
The Crying Game
Dog Day Afternoon
Edward II
(horrible mess)
8 Women
Far From Heaven
Female Trouble (do not want to see)
Fight Club (do not want to see)
Fox and His Friends
Funny Girl
The Gang’s All Here
The Gay Deceivers
The Gay Divorcee
Giant
Girls Will Be Girls
Glitter
Go Fish
Gods and Monsters
Grey Gardens
Grief
Happy Together
Heathers
Hedwig and the Angry Inch
Henry & June
Hustler White
I’ve Heard the Mermaids Singing
Jackass: The Movie
The Killing of Sister George (always been curious, but I’ve heard horrible things about it)
Kinsey (always been curious, but I’ve heard horrible things about it)
The Last of Sheila (no interest whatsoever)
The Living End
The Lonely Lady (no interest whatsoever)
Mahogany (always been curious, but I’ve heard horrible things about it)
Making Love (no interest whatsoever)
Maurice (always been curious, but I’ve heard horrible things about it)
Moment by Moment
Mommie Dearest
My Own Private Idaho
Myra Breckinridge
The Opposite of Sex
Paris is Burning
Parting Glances
Pee-Wee’s Big Adventure
The Pillow Book
Prick Up Your Ears
Re-Animator
Saved! (no interest whatsoever)
Scary Movie
Score
Show Me Love
Showgirls (no interest whatsoever)
Skidoo
Smile
Some Like It Hot
South Park: Bigger, Longer & Uncut
A Star is Born (1954)
Suddenly, Last Summer
Sunday Bloody Sunday
Sunrise
Sunset Blvd.
Swoon
Tarnation
Taxi Zum Klo
Tongues Untied
Trick
Unzipped
Valley of the Dolls
Victim
Victor/Victoria
What Ever Happened to Baby Jane?
Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory
Without You I’m Nothing
The Women
Women in Love
Written on the Wind
Xanadu
Zero Patience

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May 31 2006

Crisis Management:

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I’m taking the day off from work-work because some things have piled up here that demand our immediate attention and cannot wait; I never seem to do well with Memorial Day weekends, and this one wasn’t up with the really horrific ones, but it wasn’t good. Lots of details to take care of, including getting new arrangements for Mere for the summer. You’ll see some spot posts from me during breaks in the day.

A friend of Susan’s whose computer I spent an ungodly amount of weekends with this winter and spring just stopped by and dropped off three hams as a thank-you. Well, for rigth this second, they’re going into the freezer until I can figure out what to do with them. The problem is that while Mere and I like pork and ham, it tears up Susan and her mom (now back from a trip to Tuscon) - gout problems. So them have to be very limited in what pork/ham stuff they eat.

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May 31 2006

Tori Spelling starring in…

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May 30 2006

A very sad day:

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Drastically wrong choices are indeed choices, true enough. I have seen very dear friends go right over the edge and into personal, utter disaster with wrong choices. It kills me to watch them do it, but I can’t make them not make those choices. And sometimes, even if they see how much trouble those wrong choices can bring them up front and personal when their near and dear hit that wall, they still do it. Denial is not just a river in Egypt. For some, it’s a way of living.

And when it comes down to it, you try to remember them in the best way that they ever were. You grieve a lot. You try to get over the shock of it all. You try to think of how to stop caring about what’s going to happen to them. And how difficult that is. You try not to think about the people who used to look up to them.

And I’ve seen it hit close to me several times. Very very very close. Sometimes, it’s drugs and is fed by a close set of pals who push along a Happyland, sometimes it’s their own internal madness asserting itself and not wanting to deal with anything outside of the world they create for themselves. And if there’s a problem, it’s never something they walked into. It’s The Fault of Rude People Out There. And if you happen to live in a reality they don’t like, they withdraw from you and vanish off into the twists of Happyland where everything is cool.

And you end up withdrawing from them, sad as it may be. You discover that Happyland is more important than honesty, than the possessions and safety of others, or the love and concern of their old friends. And it breaks your heart whenever it happens. It’s happened too many times for me to ever be able to deal with it easily.

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May 30 2006

My favorite quote from seeing AKEELAH AND THE BEE this weekend with Mere:

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The film gives it as being from Nelson Mandela, but it’s actually from Marianne Williamson, whose stuff I’ve seen with my MIL and at church:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

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May 30 2006

And what’s the color of the sky in your world?

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Interesting platform, for NAMBLA fantasy island. The free trains and everyone naked part should appeal in Chicago. Especially in January.

I really get tired, BTW, with people who insist that this is the Democratic Party platform, or something like it.

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May 29 2006

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  • President Bush: I studied Harry Truman. I watched Harry Truman. Harry Truman was a favorite President of mine. You are no Harry Truman.
  • Personally, I think we need to applaud the Congress for realizing where our real, immediate priorities are. Flag burning and gay marriage.
  • And new weapon systems to blow things up. Never mind spending money on taking care of veterans and their families. Contractors can’t make any money over that.
  • And there’s no point in having vetos. The office of Vice President Dick Cheney routinely reviews pieces of legislation before they reach the president’s desk, searching for provisions that Cheney believes would infringe on presidential power, according to former White House and Justice Department officials. The officials said Cheney’s legal adviser and chief of staff, David Addington , is the Bush a dministration’s leading architect of the “signing statements” the president has appended to more than 750 laws. The statements assert the president’s right to ignore the laws because they conflict with his interpretation of the Constitution.

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May 28 2006

Test to Destruction:

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More details on the FBI/DOJ standoff versus the House leadershipThe White House grew especially concerned about a House Republican Conference meeting scheduled for 11 a.m. Thursday and later rescheduled for 3:30 p.m. In the heat of the moment, it could have gotten out of hand and wound up with some sort of resolution demanding that Gonzales step down.

Some good discussions on all of this at Firedoglake.

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May 27 2006

Catboxes

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Someday, someone will have to explain to me exactly why cats do this.  All the time.  Perching, sure.  But this?

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May 27 2006

Um, er, a retraction from Newsweek.

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Seems that famous story on ‘if you’re not married by 30, you should hang it up‘ wasn’t exactly so…

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May 27 2006

Gattaca redux:

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Barney Frank on the FBI seizures of Congressman Washington’s stuff:  (and here’s another interesting take on it)

What we now have is a Congressional leadership, the Republican part of which has said it is okay for law enforcement to engage in warrantless searches of the average citizen, now objecting when a search, pursuant to a validly issued warrant, is conducted of a Member of Congress.

I understand that the speech and debate clause is in the Constitution. It is there because Queen Elizabeth I and King James I were disrespectful of Parliament. It ought to be, in my judgment, construed narrowly. It should not be in any way interpreted as meaning that we as Members of Congress have legal protections superior to those of the average citizen.

So I think it was a grave error to have criticized the FBI. I think what they did, they ought to be able to do in every case where they can get a warrant from a judge. I think, in particular, for the leadership of this House, which has stood idly by while this administration has ignored the rights of citizens, to then say we have special rights as Members of Congress is wholly inappropriate.

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May 27 2006

And some positive news:

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The Pope is pushing for John Paul’s sainthood - in Poland. Nothing like getting a crowd charged up.

Sentencing guidelines story on the Enron convictions - hey, how about a day in the clink per penny lost?

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May 27 2006

Sounds like a deal to me:

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Attorney General Alberto R. Gonzales and senior officials and career prosecutors at the Justice Department told associates this week that they were prepared to quit if the White House directed them to relinquish evidence seized in a bitterly disputed search of a House member’s office, government officials said Friday.

Made in India Phones Set To Tap Global Markets.  Uh, unfortunate turn of phrase, there.

DAN BARTLETT, White House Spokesman: The good thing is that all parties recognize it’s critically important that this investigation continue; that anytime that there’s any allegation of public corruption of a public official or a congressman, that we do everything we can to fully investigate this.

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May 26 2006

Sometimes, though, I despair of humanity:

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May 26 2006

My deep dark secret:

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On weekdays that I work at home, I will sometimes go off for lunch to a nearby good Punjabi / Indian buffet lunch place and work over Mutter Paneer, naan and so on, finishing off with a nice Gulab Jamun or ten.  And I read the papers.  The freebie ones in the lobby for the locals to read about what’s going on back in India. 

It’s a very different world, folks, depending on your background, your viewpoint and your sources for information.  Here, we tend to be amagamated into a CNN/AP world in the USA, and I strongly feel that that’s hardy objective enough.  I regularly read British, Irish and Australian stuff online, and English-Language news from elsewhere - I used to read Der Spiegel all the time, but my German’s getting dodgy from lack of use and it’s not easy to find on the stands. 


And in the Indian press and community, there’s a whole different outlook on things you and I might see in a different light.  Chinese and South Asians line up to go through the endless awful tedium of the Immigration system to get into this country - make themselves look like an attractive hire, so to speak - and here we’re talking about a gazillion Latinos jumping the fence when there’s tens of thousands of South Asians playing by the rulles and waiting years and years to get in…and when they do, they’re treated as third-class stealing-outjobs-and-secretly-wanting-to-blow-us-up-for-jihad from people who wouldn’t recognize a Sikh from an Ayatollah - hey, they both have turbans and beards, right?

Or there’s another hot issue which is not in your papers…the Pope and the Indian government getting into a huge fight.  The present opposition party in this supposedly secular state is a Hindu Nationalist organization that had its roots in the Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh, an odious outfit that basically feels that India should be a purely Hindu state for the Hindus, and their own version of conservative Hinduism.  Which does not include Christians (who have been in India for 2000 years), Jains, Sikhs, Buddhists (all Hindu heresies, as far as they’re concerned, at best), Muslims and so on. 

Same bunch assassinated the man who said: “As soon as we lose the moral basis, we cease to be religious. There is no such thing as religion over-riding morality. Man, for instance, cannot be untruthful, cruel or incontinent and claim to have God on his side”.

Hokay.  So the Popes have never been fond of the Hindu nationalists, especially when they decide to make the local laws tough on the operation of churches in India.  (Most of the ancient congregations in India are affiliated with the Catholic Church; there’s been missionary work among the poor and suffering in India for a loooong time by various denominations, including such danger spots as Mother Teresa in the Calcutta slums.)  

The most recent stuff is where some Indian states are putting up laws that assume that anyone that wants to become a Christian is being forced and/or bribed to do it - so they make it illegal to convert, while hyped-up politicians stir up nutball mobs to burn missionaries and their children alive in a ‘proper Hindu cremation’.   Guy had been in India as a teacher and caretaker to lepers and the poorest of the poor for 35 years, and gets roasted with his 11 and 7 year old sons in a Jeep they were sleeping in.

The Pope sees this as religious intolerance and not suitable for a secular democracy.  The head of the Hindu party says that the Pope can stuff it, and that the conversions are coerced, and taking advantage of the poor peoples’ bad situations to entice them into the eeeviles of Christianity. And if the Pope doesn’t stuff it:

“We have to exercise restraint in our reactions to any given situation lest our harsh reactions might generate militant mood in society to the detriment of harmony.”

Translation: Me and the boys can, get, like, provoked, ya know?


The editorial dude in the Indian paper thought this was crapola, and said something like: If you are trying to promote the Hindu faith, do it by going out there and showing the good side of the faith and helping those people, rather than sitting on your money to build fancier temples. If you can’t deal with the concept of competition because these mission people care and show it and you don’t and show it, what does that say about you and what you believe and how you behave?

Note: I’m not Catholic, and I am Christian but not an Evangelical by any stretch of the imagination. What this was more about, to me, was the question of the teachings of my favorite Bible verse: Matthew 5:16 - which says a lot to me about our mission as people in the world.  We need to live what we say we believe in a positive manner, in such a way that we inspire others with the same passion, the same sense of mission, and to bring out a positive light in their lives through example and inspiration.  Not a stirring up for purely political points or power, or to stuff your religious down someone’s throat and dance around them as they burn, but to go and do positive things for the better nature of man, and to remind him or her that that better nature exists in themselves and is worth preserving and promoting. 

I bring that passion into different things in my life, in the search to do the right thing for myself and others.  It’s the reason why I struggle for the right thing to do in political life, in government, in human affairs and for my own family.   And this whole thing made me think long and hard about how people will insist on the enforced status quo, but never do anything positive to support it.  Talk about The Family and Our Culture and never do much concrete and positive to support either while watching the bucks roll in and jerking political power chains.  A living wage?   Feh.  Long term security, better health, a better life?  Feh.  Easier to work on your fears and stir up crusades about enforcing Bans and picking out pariahs and unbelievers who need to get worked over. 

And yes, I understand cultural degeneracy.  It starts when you no longer live a positive message yourself and don’t care about the people you minister to, and give them something real to believe in as a way of life.  It takes serious root when you don’t work for the better life of your flock and concentrate too much about your next golfing trip. And when you endorse negative, anti-life fanaticism in your people as a way of existance, you give the rest of us not much to believe in in what you say or do.

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