Dec 26 2005
Lute: Thee Joye of Xtmas
This Christmas season was relatively low key, partially because Susan, Mere and I are all still Under the Grippe (or Mystery Colds, if you prefer, That Aren’t Going Away) and so we aren’t feeling like stipping down naked, rolling in the mud and doing jumping jacks. Or a lot of other things. Mere was really keyed up with the whole ‘Santa’s Coming!’ thing, complete with leaving me to do Santa duty in re eating the cookies and milk she left out for him.
Everyone did about 90% of their wrapping on Christmas Eve; I disappeared to the basement, and the rest were in different parts of the upstairs, working away on things. Mere handed off (mostly) things from around the house that she had re-wrapped, but the idea was there, and she did it in a cute way - and it was obvious that she wanted to do stuff for people, from the bottom of her heart, and that’s what you want to see. Around 2 pm was the ‘gift exchange’, and I came off better than I had for years; some nice clothes (nothing fancy, but I liked them, and there was obviously some thought put into what I would need and like), a couple of books I’d wanted (one was on Chinese environmental approaches or the lack of them under the PRC, another on Chinese characters that is quite good), a very nice MP3 player, a pair of slippers (greatly needed and considering my shoe size, hard to find) and other odds and ends that are escaping me now. Susan’s big items were a new big flash drive and a similar MP3 player, and a copy of TOBY TYLER. Mere gloried in her stuff, particularly her new Game Boy Advance, and you could barely get it out of her paws for the next couple of days.
We left about 4 pm for Susan’s aunt’s house, had dinner there and left my MIL behind to go on on Christmas morning to South Dakota. (When she lived in South Dakota, Connie would drive here on Christmas Day and go back on New Years’ Day; now, since she lives here, she does the reverse commute.) We got back and got Mere to bed, did the Santa stuff and watched a little of ALL MINE TO GIVE, a promising looking family movie from the year I was born. At 4:30 am, Mere woke up with a bloody nose, and once she got over the initial AAAAAGH and cleanup and settled down, she bolted for the tree and presents!!!! …and so, we did the Santa presents in the wee smalls, and I spent over an hour getting her back to sleep. She still hasn’t cracked her big Santa present, a ‘Star Station’, which is best described as a video karaoke thing. Susan says (and I agree) that Mere doesn’t feel like performing.
Christmas morning was spent cleaning and preparing for our friends Zack and Kathy to come over, for a Hannukah/Christmas celebration. Mere loves to play Dreidle, and has a fair amount of curiosity about the Jewish holiday, and Kathy is happy to oblige. Susan and Kathy wipped up a simple but nice meal that everyone loved, and Mere and Zack were busy with Mere’s Game Boy, and just generally hanging out. It was low key, because Susan and I and Mere were so under the weather, but nice. Mere’s Hannukah presents from Kathy included some kids books that Mere found fascinating, and a set of dreidels and a book on the holiday.
After Zack and Kathy left, we did our routine of Trying To Get The Kid To Settle Down Even Though She’s Tired So She Can Sleep, and Susan picked out a movie I had TiVoed called The Christmas Child. It knocked us all on our butts, mostly because the material was very near to our hearts (has to do with adoption, etc., and has Steven Curtis Chapman as a minister with an adopted kid named Grace, which is Mere’s middle name, and the kid looked Asian) and affected us all.
All in all, a nice Christmas.




